Study 42: "Self Dependence" 29/1/16.
We discussed the difference between 'pride' and confidence'. Pride is thinking highly of ourselves in a self-centered way. It is wanting to take credit for what we do, whereas confidence does not need to take credit for our achievements. Pride is lifting up our self esteem. Confidence is the assurance of our own capability. Confidence that rests in God is appropriate. We said that we should be speaking an interacting with others in a way that affirms their effort rather than their nature or character when they do well or need encouragement. This balance is especially difficult when we interact with our own children. Self-dependence, lukewarmness and loss of spiritual insight are linked (Rev 3:15-20). Christ's reproves and disciplines the lukewarm believers that He nevertheless loves. His prescription for lukewarmness is to have us be zealous and repent. We cannot earn the gold and garments He urges us to buy - we can only receive them by responding to His knock on